If you separate your contacts into groups and your wife's contacts into other groups, have separate calendars ( within outlook ) you can choose which group(s) get synced with each iPhone.
__________________
-I tweet ..therefore I am?
http://www.codemonkeycodes.com
iPhone 3GS ( white ) 32GB, Jailbroken 3.1.2. If I helped you, click the scales on my post to give some rep 
|